Looking for the perfect passionate partner after 60? Certain things have to be in place for a relationship to be passionately compatible.
1. Spark
Love at first sight is strictly the pheromones jumping. For a long-term passionate relationship to work there has to be an initial spark on both sides. Gradually the flame gets stronger. Remember though, if the flame is too big and hot to begin with you will probably get burned!
2. Self Evaluation
What does the perfect love partner look like to you? Does it mean having sex 3 times a day or once a week? Does it mean sitting on the sofa holding hands or maybe going for a walk together but keeping the sexual part of a relationship very low key or even non-existent? Or possibly a perfect partnership for you requires constant heated discussions about every topic with your partner. It’s important to know how you define passion and then look for a person who has the same needs and passion.
3. Values
What are your beliefs and values? Are they similar to those of your new boyfriend or girlfriend? If he wants to show affection in public and you find that very uncomfortable, there are going to be problems right away. Passion is something that must be shared in similar ways as I mentioned in the self-evaluation. Is financial security really important to you? Children and grandchildren may play a huge role in a later relationship so how much time do you give? Having a relationship with a like-minded Christian is very important to some.
Talk about your values. If they aren't very much alike, issues will arise quickly. Don’t expect the other person to change. Values aren’t negotiable.
4. Age
Age differences of over 10 years can create problems as the relationship develops and the couple gets to know one another better. It can work out well if the level of passion is similar, though not necessarily for the long-term. If one person is over 60 and the other person is still ready to have babies, are you both ready for the life-long commitment?
5.Attitude
Passion is also about attitude. A person who has a positive attitude about life is going to generate a passionate glow around them and attract others toward them. The one thing that a people must be aware of though is opposites often attract. Someone who isn’t passionate will often be drawn to a dynamic individual who exudes passionate energy. Your positive energy can be quickly drained if you aren’t aware it is happening.
Passion for everything in life is so rewarding. If you are lucky enough to find your passionate partner, enjoy every minute!
1. Spark
Love at first sight is strictly the pheromones jumping. For a long-term passionate relationship to work there has to be an initial spark on both sides. Gradually the flame gets stronger. Remember though, if the flame is too big and hot to begin with you will probably get burned!
2. Self Evaluation
What does the perfect love partner look like to you? Does it mean having sex 3 times a day or once a week? Does it mean sitting on the sofa holding hands or maybe going for a walk together but keeping the sexual part of a relationship very low key or even non-existent? Or possibly a perfect partnership for you requires constant heated discussions about every topic with your partner. It’s important to know how you define passion and then look for a person who has the same needs and passion.
3. Values
What are your beliefs and values? Are they similar to those of your new boyfriend or girlfriend? If he wants to show affection in public and you find that very uncomfortable, there are going to be problems right away. Passion is something that must be shared in similar ways as I mentioned in the self-evaluation. Is financial security really important to you? Children and grandchildren may play a huge role in a later relationship so how much time do you give? Having a relationship with a like-minded Christian is very important to some.
Talk about your values. If they aren't very much alike, issues will arise quickly. Don’t expect the other person to change. Values aren’t negotiable.
4. Age
Age differences of over 10 years can create problems as the relationship develops and the couple gets to know one another better. It can work out well if the level of passion is similar, though not necessarily for the long-term. If one person is over 60 and the other person is still ready to have babies, are you both ready for the life-long commitment?
5.Attitude
Passion is also about attitude. A person who has a positive attitude about life is going to generate a passionate glow around them and attract others toward them. The one thing that a people must be aware of though is opposites often attract. Someone who isn’t passionate will often be drawn to a dynamic individual who exudes passionate energy. Your positive energy can be quickly drained if you aren’t aware it is happening.
Passion for everything in life is so rewarding. If you are lucky enough to find your passionate partner, enjoy every minute!
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